Being in a healthy long term relationship is wonderful, but it’s easy to get stuck in a routine in the bedroom sometimes.
Even the most passionate sex can run out of passion and even the most intimate acts of sexual ecstasy can run out of steam after a while.
Worried that might happen to you? Well, don’t be. You can spice up your sex-life in quite a few ways and costumes and role playing sex is definitely one of the best.
Sexual role play is a game of seduction where you and your partner enact different characters, and dress up just like the character and make sexual advances at each other.
Role play is so much fun and a great way for couples to explore their deepest fantasies, and because they are in a committed relationship based on trust, there are no limits to what the imagination can come up with! – says Holly Randall, an iconic photographer and host of Playboy TV’s “Adult Film School.
Get experimental in the bedroom with these Role Play Ideas To Turn Him On and spice up your sex-life tonight!
Our imagination has the ability to take us places that are otherwise unrealistic. Through creative role play and an open mind, most fantasies can be creatively acted out, says Dr. Laurie Bennett-Cook, a clinical sexologist.
Call-Girl vs. Client
You’re the call girl who knows how to please, seduce, keep a man begging… and make him pay up!
You’re so sexy and such an expert in what you do that your man is willing to pay a lot to screw you! For you, anything is permitted: provocative clothing, daring techniques, dirty talk…anything excepting one thing: kissing! Not being able to kiss you will drive your partner mad with desire.
You can arrange to find him, alone, sat at the bar of a classy hotel.
Cop vs. Criminal
This role-play scenario is a classic with a twist: the cop and law-breaker scenario, but where the woman is the cop.
Locked up in his cell and punished, your partner will be completely under your control. Where will this attraction and this dominating/dominated relationship lead?
It’s all about dependency. A scenario like this is extra sexy because the woman is in the authoritative position.
Naughty School Girl vs Punishing Professor
This is one of the classics. Now it’s time to whip out that school uniform and who cares if it’s too small – this makes even more appealing. So, now you’re a naughty school girl and your man is the older, sexy teacher.
You can learn pretty much anything in class: piano, maths, French… so why not sex?
Stripper vs. Client
Pull out your skimpiest underwear, slap on some makeup and dance for him. Lightly dressed, you dance for and flirt with your lover but he doesn’t have the right to touch you.
Move close to him, but not within reach. You know exactly how to turn him on.
Everyone likes looking at their partner’s body or feeling looked at and desired.
Let’s face it: he loves porn, you love it also! So why not make your very own porn movie?
Maybe you’ve always wondered what you and your lover looked like while having sex. Or maybe you’ve always fantasized of getting down and dirty in front of the camera. Making your own home movie may be just the fun time for you. It can also be a very sexy way to relive your time getting sexed up as well as spend some sexy time together when you’re not actually physically with each other. Our smart phones alone are capable of capturing a pretty clear picture. However, if you do choose that route make sure you have a safe place to store your video. – says Dr. Laurie Bennett-Cook, a clinical sexologist.
Meeting a Stranger
This one is especially fun to play out if done in a public place!
Meeting as strangers at the bar is one of the hottest role playing games as you both pretend not knowing each other and other people at the bar assume you are picking up a stranger.
Plan a date and time to go the bar separately and pretend you don’t know each other.
You’ll want a location where neither of you are known and that is busy enough that other people may observe what is taking place but not too busy that your interaction is unnoticed. One partner arrives 15 minutes after the other and after a time can saunter up to the other – pretending to have just met. Allow the conversation to flow as though you were first encountering a potential lover. After your fun and sexy conversation head back to your new lover’s place for a shameless rendezvous. – says Dr. Laurie Bennett-Cook, a clinical sexologist.
Let us know what is your favorite role play idea in the comment bellow!
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