Most Common Sex Fetishes

There are tons of fetishes out there that might seem strange, but they are very common. Experts say that “The word fetish is misused all the time. Traditionally, it refers to the overwhelming sexual arousal a person feels surrounding a particular object or situation” (sexologist  Seth Prosterman).

A fetish is an extremely strong devotion to something. There are sexual fetishes and nonsexual fetishes: both are obsessive interests.

The most common use of the word fetish is probably the sexual meaning.

So, a sexual fetish is:

a form of sexual desire in which gratification depends to an abnormal degree on some object or item of clothing or part of the body

Most people are embarrassed about their fetish and don’t discuss it with their friends or, worse than that, with their partner. But you have to know that you aren’t alone. There are many people that have the exactly same fetishes like you.

Even your fetishes might seem a little strange, their are actually common. So, let’s take a look to the Most Common Sex Fetishes.

6. Foot Fetish

Also termed as podophilia, this is quite a common fetish. The legs are a very powerful erogenous zone. From reflexology is known that certain toes have a direct connection with the stimuli of genital area, thus producing pleasure.

If you notice that your partner is attract by your legs, you can propose him to make your a massage or you can wear sandals with high heels and nothing else in bed.

Some people are in love with pretty foots. They may crave for licking, sucking, kissing and biting the toes or may easily get turned on with a footjob.

5. Leather and Latex Fetish

This fetish is one of the most common. There are a lot of clubs dedicated to it, because leather, and particularly black leather, has become almost inextricably associated with sex.

Men usually love such material because these give a pornographic tinge to sex parties. Who can resist a “bad girl” dressed in a black suit, tight? Women love it, too. There are many women who can’t resist a bad boy in a leather biker jacket.

Most Common Sex Fetishes

Most Common Sex Fetishes – 5. Leather and Latex Fetish

4. Role-Play

Who doesn’t enjoy some role-play now and then? This is not a new fetish, but it is a good one that create such many sensual scenarios.

Sexual role-play involves two or more individuals acting out different roles in a sexual scenario. It can be any type of sexual fantasy.

You can act in a specific location, a hotel maybe or a classroom, dressing up in different costumes…the possibilities are limited only by your imagination.

Most Common Sex Fetishes

Most Common Sex Fetishes – 4. Role-Play

3. Voyeurism and/or Exhibitionism

Some people simple get turned on by watching other people having sex or by being watched. It is worth mentioning that voyeurs are not the people who like and view porn. They want the real thing.

One out of three individuals enjoys watching sex or exposing themselves in public. Studies show that men are more voyeuristic than women with 12 percent of men being aroused while watching sexual acts compared to 4 percent of women.

Most Common Sex Fetishes

Most Common Sex Fetishes – 3. Voyeurism and/or Exhibitionism


BDSM – Bondage and Discipline, Sadism and Masochism – is a set of behaviors, customs, and rituals involving the giving by one individual to another individual control over them.

According to sex experts, BDSM is:

a huge umbrella term for a wide range of activities, from fuzzy handcuffs you can buy at a women-oriented sex boutique to the more extreme sexual dungeon set-up

Most Common Fetish

Most Common Sex Fetishes – 2. BDSM

1. Golden Shower

This is a fetish that include urinating on another person. This can happen before, during or after sex.


Woman A: Urinating on my partner made me feel I was in control. Like I was better than him. It was a big ego booster.

Man A: The taboo and newness of it all was quite exciting. I also enjoyed the submission to my partner in a way, which was also brand new to me.

Most Common Sex Fetishes

Most Common Sex Fetishes – 1. Golden Shower

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